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Millionaire Match for You

Thursday, November 27th, 2008

Seriously, what’s the deal with all these millionaire match websites? I was chatting with a fellow female member of the site a few days ago and we started talking about the difference between certain dating sites; their pros and cons…

We had both been members of Eharmony and Match before, and for reasons I don’t think need explaining, decided that it was time to get involved with men of a different… caliber.

So, after an unsuccessful stint with the big 3, I joined an actual ‘millionaire matchmaking’ service. The price? $3,000 for 6 months, with an actual GUARANTEE of landing me a soul-mate who made over $100,000 a year. I know, I was naive. But surprisingly, right after I signed my non-refundable contract with Sally Smith (not her real name, who owned 5 locations belonging to what turned out to be a large millionaire dating Franchise – with locations all over the country), I was hopeful.

The first thing they had me do was make a ‘Classic Profile’, which included a video, and a general online profile which they would submit to various bachelors… The whole process was humiliating. I ended up spending over $5,000 on their special hair and makeup artists, not only for the video (which was Never completed), but for the only ‘date’ I went on through their service. The guy I was lucky enough to be matched with was all too aware of how much of a rarity he was. Smug doesn’t even come close to describing this guy, who let me know, BTW, that I was wearing too much makeup.

All in all, I came to know that the only way to really get what you want in the niche dating pool, is to cast the net yourself. Thus, I am here now. In the 4 months I’ve been on SeekingMillionaire, I’ve established connections with several gentlemen. Still looking for that special ‘one’ though, but now I’m setting the sails, and I know that real love can’t be rushed.

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Advice for Picky Millionaires

Monday, June 23rd, 2008

Picky millionaires pickier when it comes to advice

This blog isn’t pretending to be your relationship therapist or your wedding planner, but we do hope to provide our members with some useful millionaire dating advice.

Millionaire daters can’t be squeezed into the general online dating box. Let’s face it, millionaires generally aren’t the type to rush into something without reading up on it first, so we always try to post any useful millionaire dating tips as soon as we think of them.

So here’s where you come in. If you have something to say, or a question to ask, do so right here on the blog. It’s the best way to answer all your millionaire dating questions, and believe me, there are plenty of curious millionaire singles out there who’d appreciate any thoughts you have to share.

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Keeping Track of Members

Friday, June 20th, 2008

Having trouble remembering who you’ve contacted?

Many members have had trouble keeping track of other members. Here are some quick tips to prevent online dating amnesia:

Messages: Unless you have a specific reason not to, keep them saved. You never know when you may need to reference them again.

Email Addy’s: If you can, and if your a serious millionaire dater, consider collating the email addresses you’ve collected with the names of the daters they belong to.

Photos: Create a special folder just for dating pics. This is an easy way to stay organized, and to have a means of deleting all of your dating pics in one clean sweep.

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Simple truth valued over a million dollars

Wednesday, June 18th, 2008

An honest air can boost your dating success

Millionaire daters often regard honesty as the only real currency. In a money driven world, you’d be hard pressed to find someone who wouldn’t consider lying (to various extremes) to get ahead. That is, until you became a member of a millionaire personals site.

On this site, pretty much everyones got dough- or its weight in looks. The real commodity seems to be integrity. The first to fail the honesty test are internet scammers, with their fake profiles and their insidious emails, they’re about as trustworthy as a snake. Then you have your everyday “little white lies”, and yes, everyone does tell them! But what happens when a little white lie turns into a big red flag? What if a little harmless “smudging of facts” turns into an all out battle for the little credibility you have left?

Well, the first thing I can say is that online relationships are hypersensitive to dishonesty. Think about it, when you tell a lie online, it means that you’ve WRITTEN a lie online! And for some reason, written lies like to linger around a bit longer than verbal ones, sometimes for good. So the first thing I recommend you do is to find out just how long your online trail of duplicity has gone, and stop any further bleeding. This means the short, and most likely painful truth will have to be dolled out everywhere your lie has spread all, across the web.

The clean-up stage can be intense, but trust me, after it’s done you’ll feel miles better. Remember, the only thing worth more than gold on a site full of millionaires, is your word.

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Finding a Rich Man (or Woman)

Wednesday, June 11th, 2008

It’s easy to get discouraged,

so read this blog before you grab the Haagen Dazs.

If your feeling discouraged, it means that you’ve internalized your millionaire dating hunt. Discouraged daters feel anger, sadness, resentment and rejection when:

Someone reads your message without responding- Although there are countless reasons someone might read your message without responding, you will only sense rejection.

Someone’s “Ideal Match” read like your life story, yet they’re not interested- You both like the same movies, like the same sports and went to the same concert last night, yet your would-be match made in heaven simply isn’t interested. Let’s face it, just because someone might be a perfect match for you, doesn’t mean you’ll be a perfect match for them. Would you ever tell someone: “after reading your profile I’ve noticed that we’re both Cancers, we both watch TV and have brown eyes, lets meet!”? Probably not.

To find a millionaire requires patience and sincerity. Remember, the millionaire daters on this site are looking for committed, monogamous, long-term relationships. If your looking for something with no-strings-attached, than SeekingArrangement.com would be a better fit for you.

Believe it or not, you’ve probably broken an online heart or two. It’s not personal till it’s personal. Happy Dating!

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Sugar Daddy Picture Play

Tuesday, May 27th, 2008

Picture tag is a big turn-off for sugar daddies and sugar babies alike.

Sending, receiving, posting, deleting…online dating photos have a way of creating lot’s of opportunity for communication…

Tho sometimes daters end up chatting more about photos or lack thereof than about each other.

“Did you get my pic”

“not yet. try sending it to my other email address”

“the one on your profile?”

“no, the same name but on hotmail”

This is just an example of the redundant photo chat thousands of daters experience every day.

This is not what sugar daddy dating is about. No one wants to waste their time checking and re-checking their inbox or visiting other sites to view photos.

Help avoid the headache by uploading clear, recent and cropped photos of yourself, the more gorgeous the better. If your communicating with someone who hasn’t posted a picture, ask them why. Just keep the conversation on the both of you, not the photo view. Good Dating!

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Millionaire Patience is a Weekend Virtue

Friday, May 23rd, 2008

This weekend brings new members and thus new opportunities to find the right match for you.

So during your weekend searching, keep this in mind:

Finding that perfect match is not instantaneous. It may take several days to get just one response. Many people become discouraged when they find dozens of messages in their outbox, but few to none in their inbox. Remember what your mother told you, “if at first you don’t succeed, dust yourself off and try again”. Happy Dating!

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Serious Millionaires Demand Clarity

Thursday, May 22nd, 2008

Let’s get real here, there aren’t too many ‘Millionaire Dating’ sites, and of those, there aren’t too many opportunities to let fumble through your fingers.

If your here for results, whether it be finding a young and attractive companion or a wealthy individual, your correspondence should resemble your envisioned outcome. In order for anyone to take you seriously, you must first take yourself seriously.

This wasn’t written to make you spit out that piece of chocolate in your mouth and start sipping black coffee, but rather a polite reminder for you to keep your messages purpose-driven and demand respect. Good Dating!

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Dearest Sugar Daddy…

Tuesday, May 20th, 2008

This morning a member asked if we could retrieve a message she deleted a few weeks ago. Apparently, this message was one that she would have liked to use again. Unfortunately, once you delete a message, it becomes a memory.

The lesson?

Save your messages, and use them again! Don’t let your literary genus go to waste, if you create a masterwork message, save it as a template. Sending personalized template messages is a discreet way of saving you time AND making you stand-out.


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Sugar Daddy Dating Fallacy: “I’m Sorry”

Sunday, May 18th, 2008

Don’t apologize for messaging someone! It is one of the most common mistakes made by online daters, and the sorry game simply doesn’t work. While you may think playing timid or meek will gain you sweetness points, you really might be coming off as manipulative or even stuck-up! Just imagine how you would want someone to carry themselves. As a general rule, shoot to meet your own expectations.

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