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Finding a Wealthy Man

Thursday, December 4th, 2008

Ladies, we’ve all been there… dated the guy who needed Us to support him financially. The guy who wasn’t bad at most things - except for getting off the couch and picking up the beer can he left in the middle of the floor.

Such a man is the type to say “I love you” repeatedly, but somehow, the thought of saying it back to him makes you cringe. These men are time-wasters, loosers, players, slackers, and couch potoatos. These are the men I let SeekingMillionaire.com filter out for me.

So when the bad eggs are flushed out and sent to Craigslist - I’ve got a plethora of wealthy men to choose from.

Now the tricky part is finding one I can LOL with, grow old next to, and have children by. I want my babies to have the world at their feet, heck, maybe even run for president - so I certainly don’t want genes from a guy who’s never even voted for one.

Gone are the days when Wallstreet was raining men. Now a girls gotta be more persuasive, and show herself as the princess she is without selling out to ‘diggerhood’. Wish me luck everyone, I got a message from a total millionaire stud in Toronto this morning… I patiently await his response.

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Millionaire Husband Awaits…

Thursday, November 20th, 2008

Marry a Millionaire (love with a bonus)

It always surprises me how many men on ordinary dating sites expect their women to be commited, and not date anyone but them, but when you look in their ‘desired’ section, they actually have marriage checked OFF?!

It’s true - not everyone seeks marriage, but if your wanting a woman of my age (30) to commit and ’settle down’ with you, please consider how in 10 years, your makret value as a single man will be relatvely high compared to mine.

I know that many will disagree with me on this one, and if you do, please speak up.

It’s one thing to admit that I’m looking for a millionaire partner, but I suppose I up the anty a bit by blatantly expecting him to want marriage, at least in the end.

Does anyone think it’s wrong of me to prefer men that are sure their looking for a wife?

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Gay Millionaire Partners Frown on Prop 8

Wednesday, November 12th, 2008

My election night was an overall joy fest of shock, aw, and the most surprising mixture of relief, and shame…

Of course, I’m not going to turn this blog into a political opinion forum, but I think the majority - rather, I know that the majority of voters were more than ready for Real change this last Nov. 4th. One might argue that the change we needed could have come from either ticket, but lets just say the more daring opponent of the Bush years got the nod in a landslide victory ;)

The real surprise for me was the judgment made by the majority of voters in my home state of California to pass a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage - something of which the gay millionaire daters on this site would likely not approve.

I can tell you that my best friend - who happens to be a young gay male registered as an “Attractive Male” on this site was saddened by the news of ‘Proposition 8′ getting a Yes vote, and thus negating many of his friends recent marriages (one of which I witnessed at City Hall in San Francisco).

Without offending anyone on either side, I do pose this question: is love something to limit to only one type of human pairing?

SeekingMillionaire.com is proud to be home to the largest community of wealthy gay singles looking for attractive and/or wealthy gay partners in loving, committed relationships. Check out the gay landing page: “Gay Millionaire Dating“.

No matter what your feelings are on the subject, one things for sure - love has no bounds on this site, and whether it’s ‘certified’ by the state, or church, people of all orientations are welcome on SeekingMillionaire.com with open arms :)

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Wealthy Matchmaking

Monday, October 27th, 2008

I have used a couple different matchmaking services before, and both of them cost me between $100 and $300. The results were horrible. They made me take professional photos, using THEIR photographer, and then expected me to pay an additional fee for them to ‘maintain’ my profile on numerous dating sites.

I’m not trying to bad mouth those expensive matchmakers here, but I do think that if you really know what you want, you should have the motivation it takes to be more self-guided in your journey for love.

Here on SeekingMillionaire.com, I’ve gotten much more response from far more eligible bachelors than when I was paying hand over foot for someone to do the work for me.

Has anyone else used a wealthy or rich matchmaking service? What was your experience like? How has your experience on SeekingMillionaire.com been so far?

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Dating Wealthy Men

Tuesday, October 21st, 2008

You don’t need a Million to be Wealthy

A million dollars… Having such used to be all it took to deem one “set for life”… though, as always, inflation has reared it’s ugly head, and with more and more people understanding the value of the Ability to Make millions, as opposed to actual money in the bank, wealthy men who may or may not have a gross net-worth of 1 million plus are finding this site to be their “watering hole” for love.

Personally, I wouldn’t care if my partner had a 7 figure savings account, but what I do care about is whether or not he has the traits of a succesfull, wealthy man.

Do any of you agree, or dis-agree that having millions in the bank doesn’t mean as much as the ability to earn New money? I don’t think I’m going to want to debate the merrits of those who have “old” money vs. those who have “new” money, but I would like to hear what others think about which may be more vital at this time, all things considered ;)

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Millionaire

Tuesday, October 14th, 2008

It’s about the Person Behind the Millions!

Throughout this blog, I and other members have discussed why looking for a wealthy man or woman to form a lasting, serious relationship is less about the money, and more about the person behind it. Let’s be honest; money is very attractive, and perhpas as it should be. Let’s take our current economy as another reason why many out there would consider someone’s financial well-being as part of their over-all attractivness.

Luckily, the guys who I have reached out to on this site haven’t made me feel guilty for my preferences. I am just as forth-coming with my physical details as the men on this site are with their financial ones.

Has anyone here felt uncomforatable addressing the topic of financial well-being? Also, have any Wealthy Members wondered about the best ways to address physical and other appearence-based requirements? I’d love to hear!

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Millionaire High

Thursday, October 2nd, 2008

Hello my Luxurious, Intelligent and if your smart, Persistent millionaire dating friends ;) :P

I am experiencing a millionaire high today. I had the pleasure of speaking with a man from the site who admitted he wasn’t interested in me romantically, but read my profile and gave me some Great advice for my little fledgling business.

See, I told I will not settle for zero - ever. No matter what, I try to extract some benefit out of every relationship I have, and not in a completely self-absorbed way. When’s the last time you wanted to tell someone “get over yourself”? Must have been a 90’s thing, like “hated it” or “who’da thunk it?”, but I digress…

Well, it looks like I may become a millionaire in my own right if I can keep my head on straight. Any attractive males needing a mama? Hmmmm… Ha, not for a while honeys ;)

Has anyone else had their own millionaire high? I’d really like to hear the truth from an actual millionaire, regarding what he felt, or screamed, when he made his first million…

Oprah says it didn’t hit her until she was at Macy’s and couldn’t decide between two dresses she was comparing — but suddenly it hit her; she could BUY BOTH!

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Millionaire Dress Up

Friday, September 19th, 2008

I have a question for the ladies and gentlemen…

I was talking with a relative in New York today, and somehow we got on the subject of our personal lives (go figure), but I wasn’t planning on revealing my online exploits. Especially since she married a man whoe makes less than $30,000 a year. Well, it’s all out now, the family will know by tomorrow.

I’ve been dragged out of my online dating closet. What to do. No more hiding… Hey, I might not be on Eharmony, but I’m certainly not posting hook-up ads on Craigslist. If you think I’m being harsh, I’ll admit it. It’s too bad that our society hasn’t completely warmed to the idea of dating with financial requirements, but then again, the way our economy is going, I wouldn’t be surprised if that changed.

Do any of you feel the same way? Are any of you a little hesitent about uploading your photo to an online dating site, or telling family that your dating online instead of within country club social circles?

Millionare Romancing

Thursday, September 18th, 2008

Here’s the verdict on what flies and what doesn’t

There’s a different expectation placed on millionaires in terms of nearly everything; gifts, lifestyle, education, love and the list goes on. But is it right to hold millionaires to a different romantic standard?

The truth about romance is that it’s all in the timing… not the grandure. This might give away part of the reason for me being here, but an example of this is when my financially un-equiped boyfriend would surprise me by having a 99 cent bag of sunflower seeds laying on the table when I got home. See? Small but effective.

Therefore, a millionaire man shouldn’t assume that his wealth alone is enough to woo a potential match… you’ve got to invest some brain sweat in romancing a lady, believe me guys, we can tell :)

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Millionaire Tricksters

Wednesday, September 10th, 2008

I think I’ll become a millionaire dating detective…

If being on a millionaire dating site has taught me one thing, it’s how to spot a phony millionaire. Alright, now I’m sure I’m going to get lots of comments (ha!) from millionaires who say I’ve mischaractarized them, but hey, I call ‘em like I see ‘em.

How to Spot a Lie-ionaire:

* He tells you that he ran out of minutes and will have to call you collect

* He dresses a little too nice - not always a red flag, but guys who are always really well dressed are sometimes trying to distract from something else… perhaps a small bank account ;o)

* He uses fowl language and is not punctual

* He asks you to pay your half of the bill (hasn’t happened to me, but can you believe a guy asked my friend to pay for half her meal at a 5 star resturaunt!?)

Leave your comments here folks, and if you think I’ve left something out, or if you disagree, type about it!