Millionaire Dating Blog

At one point or another in our lives we all see someone from afar, say across a crowded club and become instantly attracted to them.  It’s a natural instinct that is embedded in us as humans to say “Damn, she’s hot!” or “OMG look at that guy!”, without knowing the slightest thing about their personality or income for that matter.  Along with good looks, a great personality is almost always mentioned as a trait people look for in that quest for their special someone.  For all of us seeking our millionaire, do the same dating rules used at the club apply online?

Many members tell us that they are first drawn to a profile picture before reading any information about their potential beau or babe.  Other attractive members seeking their millionaire tell us that if they come across a man or woman they are very much attracted to but who doesn’t meet the financial requirements they are looking for, they begin to feel a bit shallow.  When it comes to dating, try not to judge a book by its cover, even if the cover is really sexy and exactly what one’s usually attracted to.  Be sure to know that there is a connection between you and him/her, more than skin deep and deeper than the wallet as well.  While money and net worth are important, money can’t always buy happiness after-all. Or can it?

Are you more attracted to his/her profile picture or their listed net worth?

No matter how much you deny it, or how well you manage it, we all have battles with insecurity.

If you’re looking for a wealthy, educated, succesfull and trustworthy partner, you’ve probably realized that you’re not alone. Though there might not be enough men with over a million in the bank to marry all the single women looking for them, there is certainly somoeone out there just for you, and if you’re visualizing a future with one of the quality men on SeekingMillionaire.com, your that much closer to realizing your dream.

When you write a message to someone on this site, do you always mention something in their profile that interested you?

Do you think that it’s important to respond to all messages you receive, or are their cases where it’s appropriate to decline a reply?

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I have a lot of friends telling me about how worried they are of loosing their jobs.

I’m not just looking for the character attributes of a successful man, I’m also looking for the stability he can provide me, especially since the job market is so shaky.

Has anyone here been laid-off? Does anyone think it’s more important than ever to find a partner who is financailly stable?

Seriously, what’s the deal with all these millionaire match websites? I was chatting with a fellow female member of the site a few days ago and we started talking about the difference between certain dating sites; their pros and cons…

We had both been members of Eharmony and Match before, and for reasons I don’t think need explaining, decided that it was time to get involved with men of a different… caliber.

So, after an unsuccessful stint with the big 3, I joined an actual ‘millionaire matchmaking’ service. The price? $3,000 for 6 months, with an actual GUARANTEE of landing me a soul-mate who made over $100,000 a year. I know, I was naive. But surprisingly, right after I signed my non-refundable contract with Sally Smith (not her real name, who owned 5 locations belonging to what turned out to be a large millionaire dating Franchise - with locations all over the country), I was hopeful.

The first thing they had me do was make a ‘Classic Profile’, which included a video, and a general online profile which they would submit to various bachelors… The whole process was humiliating. I ended up spending over $5,000 on their special hair and makeup artists, not only for the video (which was Never completed), but for the only ‘date’ I went on through their service. The guy I was lucky enough to be matched with was all too aware of how much of a rarity he was. Smug doesn’t even come close to describing this guy, who let me know, BTW, that I was wearing too much makeup.

All in all, I came to know that the only way to really get what you want in the niche dating pool, is to cast the net yourself. Thus, I am here now. In the 4 months I’ve been on SeekingMillionaire, I’ve established connections with several gentlemen. Still looking for that special ‘one’ though, but now I’m setting the sails, and I know that real love can’t be rushed.

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Hello all,

I’ve got to say; after 2 months on SeekingMillionaire.com, I have finally found my watering hole…

It used to be that going on a date was a mix of dread, a little bit of hope, but a whole hunk of uncertainty. The majority of men I was ‘lucky’ enough to date were usually at least 5 years older than me, but often, somehow, less established & stable than I had managed to become.

Maybe that’s why I sought out a dating service that was created for men and women who don’t dance around the issue of weath and quality.

The thing about wealthy men is that more often than not, they’re already taken! It’s hard for a young single gal like me to find a high quality single bachelor looking for a serious relationship.

Have any other ladies on this site felt the same way about their dating life before, and after joining SeekingMillionaire.com?

How do you view average wealth men as opposed to high wealth men, in terms of their willingness to commit?

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It’s about the Person Behind the Millions!

Throughout this blog, I and other members have discussed why looking for a wealthy man or woman to form a lasting, serious relationship is less about the money, and more about the person behind it. Let’s be honest; money is very attractive, and perhpas as it should be. Let’s take our current economy as another reason why many out there would consider someone’s financial well-being as part of their over-all attractivness.

Luckily, the guys who I have reached out to on this site haven’t made me feel guilty for my preferences. I am just as forth-coming with my physical details as the men on this site are with their financial ones.

Has anyone here felt uncomforatable addressing the topic of financial well-being? Also, have any Wealthy Members wondered about the best ways to address physical and other appearence-based requirements? I’d love to hear!

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Thanks for posting a comment Cougars Rule! Cougars do rule indeed. I have also realized that younger men are stallions in bed, but I’m on the opposite end of this dance as you, perhaps. Although I love their boddies, and usually - their endurance - younger men lack a certain level or, ‘type’ of genuineness I go for. Not saying younger men are less genuine than their older counterparts, they just haven’t learned how to let that wisedom show through their talk, and their actions.

Now, when I finish my degree, and open up my business, I will trancend the sugar baby/attractive female barrier and hopefully become a cougar myself; hot & in charge.

Thank you so much for sharing, Cougars Rule

Here’s an update about my millionaire dance partner - we did a little more than dancing on our webcams the other night… let’s just say he’s got a thing for stopping and going, stopping and going, stopping and going. OK, I’ll save you the details people

Though, I wish we could hurry up and meet in person, but like so many single millionaire men- he’s got a tight schedule. Keep your fingers crossed for me all Anyone have an experience they’ve had or something you’ve thought about money, dating and love you’d like to share?

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I was just chatting with a guy I met on the site last night…

He’s a millionaire from Fort Worth Texas, and he just LOVES movies. Every time we’ve spoken it’s about a new movie or a great oldie. Luckily for him - I love movies too.

This is the first millionaire who hasn’t made me feel the least bit awkward. I think it’s a Texas thing… very straight forward, down-to-Earth. I like that :o)

As far as any other fish in my net… no bitters, just some nibbles here and there. I got a response from a man who lives less than 10 miles away from me, but he’s MARRIED! I told him that if he wants a no-strings-attached relationship, he should go to SeekingArrangement.com… but he insisted, “I AM looking for a long term, monogomous relationship” he says. We’ll see, I agreed to go on a date with him next weekend.

I’d love to hear from any of you guys or gals about your own millionaire love tale… I’m starting to feel a bit odd, ya know, no comments and all… (hint)

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Rich Meets Hot

I know he’s out three. Still looking folks. Another day, another mailbox of opportunities. Wondering what the point of it is gets you no where. Just do it, and then once you’ve accomplished what you’ve set out to do e.g find a millionaire match - you’ll look back and think “so that’s why I kept going, even after all the rejection”.

Yes, rejection. It comes to us all, no matter how sexy, rich, or powerful. Though somehow knowing that doesn’t make it feel any better.

The good news: I’m communicating with a very charming gentleman millionaire from Seattle. He’s the private type, so I hope you understand why I can’t share much more of his personal detail. I can say that he is the oddest combination of southern gentleman and upper west coast yuppie I’ve ever met. I’m interested.

Belenda

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A very happy girl emailed us this morning with news that she received 7 messages yesterday after uploading a few more pics and “spring cleaning” her page.

Though not all daters have good news to report. Yesterday, a very attractive African American woman wrote that she believes “there are a lot of racist men on the site” and that she can’t seem to find anyone interested in her. So I looked into her profile, and what did I find? She had just one picture and very little to say about herself.

I wrote back telling her that I too know how it feels to be rejected, but that she needed at least 3 pictures…”You are happy, attractive and successful. Your smile is magnetic, and you must let everyone SEE this. We humans are visual creatures, and painfully superficial on the 1st page view.” I told her.

It just so happens that she was the same girl who wrote me this morning, elated about the 7 messages she received after giving her profile a “little spring cleaning”.

I guess May’s a good month to grab the soap bucket, put on your rubber gloves and spruce up your profile.