Millionaire Dating Blog

Ladies, we’ve all been there… dated the guy who needed Us to support him financially. The guy who wasn’t bad at most things - except for getting off the couch and picking up the beer can he left in the middle of the floor.

Such a man is the type to say “I love you” repeatedly, but somehow, the thought of saying it back to him makes you cringe. These men are time-wasters, loosers, players, slackers, and couch potoatos. These are the men I let SeekingMillionaire.com filter out for me.

So when the bad eggs are flushed out and sent to Craigslist - I’ve got a plethora of wealthy men to choose from.

Now the tricky part is finding one I can LOL with, grow old next to, and have children by. I want my babies to have the world at their feet, heck, maybe even run for president - so I certainly don’t want genes from a guy who’s never even voted for one.

Gone are the days when Wallstreet was raining men. Now a girls gotta be more persuasive, and show herself as the princess she is without selling out to ‘diggerhood’. Wish me luck everyone, I got a message from a total millionaire stud in Toronto this morning… I patiently await his response.

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Seriously, what’s the deal with all these millionaire match websites? I was chatting with a fellow female member of the site a few days ago and we started talking about the difference between certain dating sites; their pros and cons…

We had both been members of Eharmony and Match before, and for reasons I don’t think need explaining, decided that it was time to get involved with men of a different… caliber.

So, after an unsuccessful stint with the big 3, I joined an actual ‘millionaire matchmaking’ service. The price? $3,000 for 6 months, with an actual GUARANTEE of landing me a soul-mate who made over $100,000 a year. I know, I was naive. But surprisingly, right after I signed my non-refundable contract with Sally Smith (not her real name, who owned 5 locations belonging to what turned out to be a large millionaire dating Franchise - with locations all over the country), I was hopeful.

The first thing they had me do was make a ‘Classic Profile’, which included a video, and a general online profile which they would submit to various bachelors… The whole process was humiliating. I ended up spending over $5,000 on their special hair and makeup artists, not only for the video (which was Never completed), but for the only ‘date’ I went on through their service. The guy I was lucky enough to be matched with was all too aware of how much of a rarity he was. Smug doesn’t even come close to describing this guy, who let me know, BTW, that I was wearing too much makeup.

All in all, I came to know that the only way to really get what you want in the niche dating pool, is to cast the net yourself. Thus, I am here now. In the 4 months I’ve been on SeekingMillionaire, I’ve established connections with several gentlemen. Still looking for that special ‘one’ though, but now I’m setting the sails, and I know that real love can’t be rushed.

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They’re no different from the rest us, so why are they so damn sexy?

Oh, that’s right, snagging a millionaire husband is one non-stop ticket to financial security, duh! And if money’s not enough to sway your heart, than 9 times out of 10, the man who made it, is.

How to find a millionaire lover

Create your “attractive” profile on SeekingMillionaire, and then the fun begins. It starts with your profile; my quick advice: Be intentional. Let them know who you are without being too wordy, they’ll want to have a few things left to ASK you about if they decide to contact you.

Don’t sit back and wait for the line to bite, go out and reel ‘em in. It’s a matter of numbers on a certain level - the more potential matches you contact, the greater the chance that one of them will respond. Let’s be honest; there’s quite a bit of competition when it comes to dating millionaires, so being quick to spot areas of improvement on your profile is a must. Are your pictures clear? Is your profile welcoming, or intimidating? Well, that’s all my advice for now, and I say “advice” simply because in my opinion, if I could have ‘taken’ it before I started my millionaire love quest, I would have

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Thanks for posting a comment Cougars Rule! Cougars do rule indeed. I have also realized that younger men are stallions in bed, but I’m on the opposite end of this dance as you, perhaps. Although I love their boddies, and usually - their endurance - younger men lack a certain level or, ‘type’ of genuineness I go for. Not saying younger men are less genuine than their older counterparts, they just haven’t learned how to let that wisedom show through their talk, and their actions.

Now, when I finish my degree, and open up my business, I will trancend the sugar baby/attractive female barrier and hopefully become a cougar myself; hot & in charge.

Thank you so much for sharing, Cougars Rule

Here’s an update about my millionaire dance partner - we did a little more than dancing on our webcams the other night… let’s just say he’s got a thing for stopping and going, stopping and going, stopping and going. OK, I’ll save you the details people

Though, I wish we could hurry up and meet in person, but like so many single millionaire men- he’s got a tight schedule. Keep your fingers crossed for me all Anyone have an experience they’ve had or something you’ve thought about money, dating and love you’d like to share?

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So I’ve been reading some of the old posts about finding millionaire love…

And one thing that comes across through all of the comments is that most people looking for a millionaire match are actually looking for a compatible character, not a fat wallet.

Of the couples I know that met on this site, they all tell me that it was never about the money “I really wasn’t looking for gold… he is the embodiment of all of the qualities I have been looking for, so finding that was my real treasure” - attractive woman

The best way to look at it in my opinion, is like a very fancy ball. The men are wearing their tuxedos, and the women are wearing their most elegant evening gowns, and everyone is looking for that refined, sophisticated and ever elusive soul mate. Has anyone come in contact with someone that fits your idea of the perfect millionaire match? Have you ever gotten so close to the goal you could almost taste it?

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(There is nothing better than being sequestered in your house for 4 days straight and ordering take out or delivery, hehe, only if there’s a treadmill nearby )

Hi all, sorry it’s been a while

Hey everybody,

I just wanted to poke in and give a brief update. I am so tired right now, I spent the last 3 hours paying picture tag with a seeking millionaire guy. He’s hot. Well, I’ve been fighting with Damion lately, and I’m definitely ready to make some other arrangements, either here, IDEALLY here- as I would like to fall in love now OR on Seeking Arrangement (wouldn’t mind a sugar daddy either).

HunnyBabe: How ya doin girl? I hope all is well and your millionaire dating quest is going well. Miss you

Buttercup: Hey! Just asking you what I asked HunnyBabe- how are things going for you here? I can say this at least: this online dating thing has it’s way of keeping me occupied!

Kisses to all

Sarah

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Hi all,

So, another weekend approaches. Damion will be away the entire weekend, leaving me without an activity partner. This means, I’ll probably be looming over my laptop for 48 hours straight (save occasional trips to the bathroom and the kitchen). I’m a Cancer, who really does embody the traits of someone who likes to stay inside her shell.

The only exception to my anti-social, “loner” personality is that I love to go out, to shop. I used to apologize for my addiction, but I realized later that my constant appologizing for my desire to buy things that make me happy was a disorder in itself (always drawing attention to my need to shop). Ha, perhaps that’s why I’ve given up on normal men, and am now seeking millionaires and sugar daddies lol. But seriously, I try not to judge others, while also accepting harsh criticism when it comes my way.

I’m thinking about cleaning up my profile a bit. I’ve got 3 pictures (like they recommend), two of them headshots, one of them more revealing. I put different pictures on the arrangement site, those ones are more revealing. I figure millionaire singles are a little less interested in the purely physical aspects of potential matches…though, part of me thinks ‘revealing’ photo’s are always bound to get a greater response…

I was also wanting to ask you guys whether or not you think really long profile sections that are highly detailed are better than the ones with one or two simple paragraphs. Mine is on the simple side. As always, I greatly appreciate any thoughts anyone may have.

Sarah

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Am I the only one confused about when to send, and when not to send photos?

I’ve met a lot of interesting guys that don’t like putting photos in their profiles. They usually say they’ll be willing to send me a photo first, but sometimes they ask me to send additional photos (outside of the ones already posted on my profile) BEFORE they even send me one.
Is it natural for me hesitate sending a guy my photo, when he hasn’t had the brevity of putting at least one up of himself? Duh, the answer is no, haha. It does get a little bothersome though, especially when the conversation (via messaging) has already started.

I’ve been messaging with one of the millionaires on the site, and he’s very, very discreet. I really want to move forward with him, but I don’t think I’m ready to be “surprised” by his appearance. Does anyone have any advice for me here?- Sarah
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(comedy show at the kodak this weekend, should be fun…)

I’m headed out to L.A for the weekend

Damion (my sd) is taking me to a couple shows in L.A this weekend. I’ve never been to the Kodak theater, so it should be nice to see what all the fuss is about.

I’ve been getting a few more messages than usual from guys here lately. One actually lives in L.A, so I might sneak away with him and have a dinner date.

I guess I’m having an OK day self-esteem wise. I find that dating for a millionaire is kind of nerve wrecking if your not already confident about yourself, and what you have to offer a millionaire.

I’m not the hottest girl on here, but I guess no ‘one’ really is. I really liked the post stephan wrote on the seekingarrangement site today. He gives some good advice- and I’ve taken use of it already. My pictures are getting a little dated, so I’m bringing my digital camera to L.A in hopes of snagging some good ’spontaneous’ pics.

OK, I’m gonna take the last shower I’ll have in San Francisco for 3 days. I hope everyone’s doing well. Does anyone have any advice on how to take a good profile pic? Should “hot” be the first thing I should go for in my pics, or should I play up my ‘class’ and dignity on a site like this- or both? Any advice any of you have would be great.

kisses,

sarah

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(can’t wait to see him this summer—d’s buying us tickets…where’s HIS profile on here?!)

Is it ok to be on seekingarrangement AND seekingmillionaire?

I know it’s not against any policy to be on more than one dating site, but since i’m contributing to both blogs, i feel like a two-timer. I could lie and say I’m not looking for short-term, nsa fun, but that would be a lie. I AM looking for both a long-term relationship that will, once found, override all of my other lusts and desires, as well as nsa, casual fun in the meantime.

I don’t think I’m the only one doing this. But, if I am, then I am. I told my mom about how I was blogging for the seekingmillionaire site and she was confused about the entire concept of finding a millionaire match. frankly, i’m confused about it, as well. I know what I want, and I won’t hesitate to tell more about that latter, but I find it hard to explain the whole millionaire singles search thing to friends and others.

I guess it’s natural to keep your online life separate from your real life. For crying out loud, just imagine if all the young boys discussed the sites THEY visit to THEIR moms… i wonder how that dialog would go! :o)

Does anyone have any opinions about me being on the arrangement site at the same time as being on the millionaire singles site? Is it wrong, or counterproductive? I would really appreciate any comments from you guys.

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